As the end of the year rolls around, it’s a good time to think about giving to charity, especially if you’re looking to get some tax deductions. But don’t worry, donating money isn’t the only way to show generosity. We try to give our kids experiences as gifts whenever we can, although they still enjoy receiving tangible presents too.
After the joy of receiving gifts at Christmas, I wanted to find a way to share the joy of giving with my children in a more meaningful way. We started a tradition of sitting down between Christmas and New Year’s to brainstorm how we can nurture a spirit of gratitude and generosity in our family. Since kids typically don’t have much money to donate, we get creative in finding practical ways to help others as a family.
I realized just how much more likely we are to help one person rather than a big group when I saw the impact of a simple gesture at the store. My kids were excited to pick out specific gifts for children in need, each with their own wishlist. That day, it wasn’t my parenting that opened their eyes, but what experts call the “identifiable victim effect”—we’re more empathetic when we know the story of an individual rather than hearing about large groups.
While many articles provide tips on raising less entitled kids, a key point is to model generosity in a way that’s personal and relatable so kids can see it from a young age. Unfortunately, only about half of Americans donate to charities each year, with fewer giving over $500. While I believe giving money is important, it’s not the sole way to demonstrate generosity. A simple act of kindness can make a big difference to someone in your community, like a person alone in a nursing home or a family unable to afford gifts for their kids.
It’s amazing how kindness creates a ripple effect. Being kind makes us want to continue being kind, and when people receive kindness, they’re more likely to spread it as well.
This year, I’m simplifying my approach and finding small ways to spread kindness. Share your thoughts with me too!
Inspired by my kids, who noticed we frequently order food online, they decided to gather healthy snacks and drinks to offer our hardworking postal and delivery workers. Even after the holidays, I’m sure these gestures are appreciated.
In a world of emails and texts, a handwritten note of encouragement or thanks can mean a lot to someone. Take some time to let the people you care about know how much they mean to you with a heartfelt note.
Churches and community organizations often need help year-round. Ask your local church or shelter how you can support families in need. It could be as simple as paying a bill or providing warm coats.
Prioritize giving the gift of uninterrupted time to family. I’ve dedicated a day each week to unplug from digital distractions and focus on spending quality time with my family—especially during the holidays.
If your kids enjoy art, consider having them create artwork to bring to local nursing homes, bringing joy to residents who might feel lonely during the holidays.
A little surprise on top of the trashcan or recycling bin can brighten the day of the workers who make our lives easier.
Another idea: offer to babysit for friends so they can enjoy some kid-free time, which is especially valuable in our busy world where family support might not be close by.
For someone who cooks daily, a meal that I didn’t prepare is a wonderful gift. Cook a batch of meals to deliver to families, or offer freezer meals they can use whenever needed.
If you’re drained after the holidays, consider gifting a subscription to a healthy food service, like a smoothie box or prepared meals.
Lastly, don’t forget to leave positive feedback for your favorite authors, bloggers, or podcasters. A genuine review is a fantastic gift for creators.
If you’re decluttering the closet, consider donating business clothes to organizations like Dress for Success to help those re-entering the workforce.
Helping locally is crucial, but there are also many opportunities to connect with people in need worldwide. Our family looks for ways we can help globally, building a more personal connection with those we aim to support.
Generosity is more than a holiday activity—it’s a year-round practice. Be creative in finding ways to give back and show kindness, no matter the season. Let’s keep the spirit of giving alive throughout the entire year!
Share how your family gives back to the community! I’d love to hear your ideas.
