I know I might come across as a bit unromantic, but I’ve always had mixed feelings about commercialized holidays like Valentine’s Day. You won’t see me buying heart-shaped boxes of chocolates or bouquets of flowers that wilt quickly. Instead, I have a few alternative ideas that have been successful in the past or that intrigue me.
Here are some thoughtful gift ideas for Valentine’s Day, perfect for a loved one, your best friend, or even a little self-care. I appreciate days that remind me to express my love and gratitude for my family, but this holiday has turned into a celebration of candy and store-bought items that lose their charm in no time. I’m not a fan of overly sweet treats or massive gift boxes filled with truffles.
It often feels like we’re pressured to spend big on fancy dates and gifts because marketing teams have decided it’s a peak time for selling flowers and candy. Instead of shelling out an average of $160 (can you believe that’s the average?) as reported by Business Insider, I’ve got some gift ideas that promote lasting joy and well-being, not just a short-lived sugar buzz.
This Valentine’s Day gift guide is full of unique ideas, including some DIY options for those last-minute planners. I challenge everyone to ditch expensive gifts and instead put some creativity and thoughtfulness into their offerings. Personally, I treasure a file filled with handwritten letters and keepsakes from memorable times, which are far more meaningful than a box of chocolates.
To me, the best gifts are quality time and shared experiences. That’s what I’ll be giving to my family this year, and I encourage you to try it too! I have a list of my favorite experiential gifts, and some Valentine’s-specific ideas as well.
If you prefer giving a tangible gift this year, I have some favorites your recipient will love. They might not be trending on TikTok, but they’re perfect for a date night or any occasion. You could also splurge on one high-quality gift for both of you to enjoy, rather than separate gifts. That way, you invest in something a bit more expensive that can be appreciated for months or even years.
Want to make a gift instead? Here are some easy homemade options. If your kids want to participate, try these simple Valentine’s Day crafts. They can even create homemade Valentine’s Day cards for family members.
How do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Do any of these ideas appeal to you? Let’s hear your thoughts!
